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But if you present yourself instead as shy and ashamed and embarrassed for no apparent reason they will think: "Why is this guy acting like this? What's he hiding? Why can't he look me in the eye... is he a thief or a pervert or something? He seems scared or ashamed of himself, and because he doesn't seem to respect himself, then I guess I don't like him either...".

People perform these gymnastics of the mind instantly and effortlessly -- almost like an instinct. That's why first impressions are so darn critical... we all have sensitive antenna that (we think) allows us to identify the unsavory or undesirable personalities around us immediately. You cannot defeat this universal character of human nature, you have to learn how to play it instead.

So here's the pattern the typical LSM develops over time: You've made a sweeping, negative shame-based judgement of yourself, taught yourself to hate yourself for being this "horrible" person, and then developed a ROUTINE that runs with machine-like precision to torture yourself in the cruelest way possible. This monster is on public display for everyone to watch it work, adding to the humiliation.

Your actions and nervousness then transmit these negative self-judgements for others to pick up upon and reflect back at you. ...But it is YOU who were originally responsible for everyone's low regard because you were the first guy to make this judgement of yourself!

Now there are two basic ways to go about changing all this cyclic poor thinking in yourself -- you can either seek out the kind of therapy or self-help that tries to root out the original past hurts that have molded your personality into its' present crippled form...

Or, you can begin to look at your awkward social behaviors simply as a collection of bad mechanical habits that you've consistently repeated over and over to the point where you've become like a droid running on unconscious auto-pilot. The task then becomes one of trying to replace these bad mechanical habits with more useful ones that advance your social status rather than tear it down into the gutter. How to turn around a life in the process of failing in this way? I suggest using the following resources which together probably won't cost you more than a few bucks:

First, get yourself schooled-up on the nature of self-hatred, almost in the way that a therapist would understand it. Learn to break the back of your own self-hate by digging out the mechanics behind it -- and then learn how to become self-compassionate instead (because this is the only true answer to beating self-hatred). Look at the top Amazon listing that I have provided for you here on this PUA Resources page:

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Next, develop an understanding of the intricate framework of self-defeating behaviors that support all the bad habits that have come to exist exclusively to torment the "hated one" (...ah, that would be YOU!). SDB's are the tools through which self-hatred manifests itself in your physical reality. It's those collection of behaviors and attitudes that creates the reality around you that matches the distorted image of who you are in your own mind. In the case of the socially awkward of course, that would be all those behaviors that turn women off and cause them to reject us romantically.

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Whereas learning about self-hate and SDB's can answer the question of "how", the idea of toxic shame answers the question... "why"? This incredible book by John Bradshaw is the one seminal work of invaluable self-help that started me off on my own path to self-recovery, and I give it my highest recommendation.

All of these book recommendations that I'm making to you come from the heart and are completely non-commercial BTW (I'm not an Amazon affiliate presently). These books are not just full of positive rah-rah bullshit either -- each one offers a rational explanation for the thinking inaccuracies that have taken over your mind (and that's actually all they are: mere thinking inaccuracies. No need to make your problems any more amazing than that -- it only gives them more power than they deserve.)

These thinking inaccuracies simply need to be 1) understood in theory, 2) identified as to how they operate specifically in your own life, and then 3) corrected by re-framing them into positive mental structures that replace the lousy thoughts that are presently filling your head.

Lots of work to chew on I know -- but you've likely spent years cultivating the man who you presently are, and you can't just turn it all around overnight. Try to break this "inner work" up into manageable parts and work on little bits of it at a time in order to keep yourself from becoming over-whelmed and discouraged. Celebrate every little victory and achievement along the way to making your own positive changes and keep yourself motivated.

Bottom Line: If you're buying a lot of various different materials on meeting women and dating and you're still not having any luck with most of it, then it might be worth starting farther back down the timeline and begin tackling some of these more basic fundamentals that underlie your personality, first.

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