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Rest assured, you don't have to be a comedian to attract women, but you should get acquainted with what makes laughter happen and be on the lookout for it. Examples include exaggeration, play on words (i.e. puns) and using words with dual meanings in a way OTHER than what's expected in context. Women are tickled by clever humor, not dumb set-up jokes or nasty put-downs of other people.

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Women don't submit to men in the manner of playful idiots as they did in the old days. So DO try to remain on a psychologically equal level with her at all times and avoid acting like some clueless throwback from the 5th century.

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