Wimp no more
by Mike Pilinski on Nov.30, 2009, under Reader Q&A
Mike,
Thank you for the advice from your last letter. By talking with this woman further I discovered that her ex is harassing her, but she almost sounds like she’s getting off on it. She swings from happy moments to near depressed states from the time I talk with her in the morning, to when I talk with her in the afternoon. So I used some of the courage gained after reading your book and left her a message yesterday telling her to not call or contact me again. I should have told her to see a counselor too, but she already told me her Mom told her to get counseling the other day, so I didn’t want to add further insult to injury. I am out of the picture now, thank God!
Your book not only helped me seduce her, but also gave me the courage to get away before either myself or my son got injured. Before reading your book, I would have been a wimp and spent countless hours on the phone trying to mend her problems. Now I realize I am an HSM, and I don’t have to put up with this bullshit. There are plenty of normal women out there who will appreciate what I have to offer. Oh by the way, I have a degree in psychology and my educated guess is that she is BiPolar.
I dated another women like this a couple of years ago — she was on medication, but was still very flakey and scary. Thanks for the advice… it worked great until I discovered how crazy this woman was! Live and learn I suppose.
Bill
Hey Bill,
Halfway down your letter I thought to myself “bipolar”… so we are in agreement on the diagnosis there, professor.
I get guys describing these very odd types of behavior in women all that time that they can’t seem to understand or make sense of. One of the bad things about playing the field is that a certain amount of what’s floating around out there is the discarded junk that no one else wanted. And that junk can come wrapped-up in a very pretty package sometimes, which makes it ultra-deceiving and easy to get taken in by.
You may be out there honestly trying to find a soulmate to hook up with, but many of these nutty bitches are only trying to self-medicate themselves using various different men and the brief relationships they create as therapy (looking for Mr. Goodbar). I consider these women nothing more than social land mines — and learning how to step around them is one of the skills that only experience in the field will give you. One tip: if you can get an invite over to a woman’s house, one of your primary secret missions will always be to scope out her medicine cabinet. You know the stuff to look for… Xanax, Prozac or (gulp!) Lithium.
Otta there buddy!




