What’s with all these crazy women?
by Mike Pilinski on Nov.30, 2009, under Reader Q&A
Hi Mike
My new girlfriend told me something the other day that just kinda pisses me off. It’s about her ex-boyfriend — which she stayed with for a couple years — who was basically a piece of crap the way I see it. All these stories of drama and how he made her balloon up to a huge weight and everything (she’s lost it all since then, and looks great now!).
I realize I have my faults too, but why is this abusive shit so common? My girl is really pretty, and I ask myself how the fuck this could’ve happened? I know her father was not a big part of her life, and her home life is kinda bananas as well sometimes. What’s going on here do you think?
Dave
Hey Dave,
If you end up marrying this girl and ever have daughters with her, remember this …
…a girl’s FATHER becomes the working model for all her future lovers.
These girls with bum-ass dads who ignored them or are drunks or were just never there for them mess these chicks up more than you might imagine. Women like this develop a kind of radar that allows them to spot the EXACT same kind of loser their dad was, so they can they latch right onto him. Why? Who knows… maybe they want a second chance to “fix” daddy and make it all better this time around? It never works of course. Half these parents out there don’t seem to understand that the goal of raising kids is to produce well-balanced adults twenty years in the future, not little well-behaved machines designed to fix mom and dad’s own fucked-up head problems.
Shit, there’s an idea that will fly along with the pigs once they get around to sprouting wings.
If you have a great, loving dad who builds esteem in his little girl — she becomes a rational adult who knows enough to naturally avoid these kind of jerks. Those who catch the bad treatment spend the rest of their lives chasing ghosts. Judging from the success that all the pricks and losers of the world have scoring hot women, there’s a great deal of damaged goods walking around just looking to be hurt again. Sad but true.
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February 12th, 2010 on 4:54 am
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