Socially retarded and scared of women
by Mike Pilinski on Nov.30, 2009, under Reader Q&A
Hey Mike,
I purchased your e-book and am in the process of reading it. So far so good — maybe too good… sometimes it feels as if you’re speaking to me directly. How’d you know… lol?
Anyway, I am the computer nerd that you talk about. Actually, I’ve been addicted to video games/computers for ten years now…and basically its ruined my social life. I’m socially retarded and totally scared of women. The more attractive a woman is the more nervous I get and the more I stutter making her feel uncomfortable in turn. That’s why I’ve decided to change because you’re right… the game of seduction is the most important game that we will ever be called up to play! It involves becoming a better man and succeeding in other areas of life as well… which is where my motivation to change comes from.
I don’t know though… I am definitely an LSM who’s way behind my male counterparts. Sometimes I think I am so far behind that I don’t even think I can ever become an HSM. The attitude adjustment that you’re asking me to attempt can’t be done overnight, can it? How long would it take? I imagine this would take months if not years… depending on how fucked up you are… right?
Marty
Hi Marty,
Thanks for writing. Ahhh yes… a computer nerd with no social life, never had one of those guys buy my book before… 
Changing your primary thinking patterns is a lot like turning around a supertanker in the middle of the Atlantic… we’re talking about a very slow 5 mile turning radius. Takes time. The good thing is that you don’t have to achieve some kind of “Master” status at this stuff in order to make serious progress. Most guys can move up the HSM scale by maybe 20% and see some amazing changes in their life — I suppose it all depends on how far down you start. And most ordinary guys that do okay with women are hardly pick-up masters, right?
Just study and work the techniques until you get your first breakthrough, and then build on the confidence you gain and move on from there. It happens for you whenever the hell it happens… don’t watch the clock, just focus on doing some little thing more today than you did yesterday. You’ll get there. Just try to stay out of the fucking dungeon for a while, and join us here in the land of the living every now and then, okay?
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