Love happens when she’s away from you
by Mike Pilinski on Nov.30, 2009, under Reader Q&A
Hey Mike, its great to talk to you. Good job on the e-book! I especially like the story you made up at the very end illustrating the important points in the book in a practical scenario.
One of the things that I keep thinking about on which you touched on briefly….is the concept of love. You say that love does not happen when you are together with the girl…but when you are away from her. When you are away thinking about the person that has showed you affection. Also, compliments linger in the mind of the beholder? I find this fascinating.
So you’re saying that if somehow you knew how to compliment her in a certain way that she will really remember it… then THAT is the trigger to make her fall in love with you?
Your fan,
Pauly
Hey Pauly,
It isn’t just a compliment per se, but the totality of the impression that you made on a woman that gets her thinking about you and developing a fondness for you while you’re apart. Try to set her head to spinning a bit with your charm and HSM vibe, but just tease her with it and don’t get too self-revealing right away. She’ll be running all this stuff over in her mind between the time she saw you and your next encounter. It’s during that time she builds you up in her head as a kind of fantasy lover. The important thing is to realize this is happening and then to keep the fantasy going next time you see her by escalating a bit… ask her out, kiss her, give her a small gift like earrings, whatever. This is how you slowly build up the spell, the trance of romance I talk about in the book.
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