Rock your Body Workout by Zuzana
by Mike Pilinski on Aug.31, 2010, under Videos
Some of you guys need to get in shape. Here’s a little inspiration, imagine having abs like this…
Imagine having a girlfriend with abs like that! This girl’s body is an absolute work of art. And she’s so sincere at the end… “If you’re vondering why I’m so hot and sweating, maybe you should try this workout?…“ I love that.
Go to YouTube and type “Zuzana fitness” into the searchbox. She’s got a channel. I’ve canceled my cable.
Top 3 Ways to Make a Girl More Erotic and Fun Loving in Bed
by Mike Pilinski on Aug.29, 2010, under General Thoughts
When it comes to making love, women are generally more into the fantasy aspect of the erotic build-up than they are the simple thrill of getting undressed with someone they know and love (or maybe DON’T know and/or love) like most of us guys.. So how to make a girl erotic in a way that we really want her to be? Well, enticing a woman to yield to your deepest and most secret desires requires that you gradually draw her into your worldview by making yourself into a unique High Value Lover, and then doing so again and again on a consistent basis until you secure her complete and total enchantment. At that point, like it or not, she’s yours.
You weave this seductive magic by CUSTOMIZING each and every experience in bed for her based on some careful investigation on your part. Great sex for most women can be defined as erotic in a way that she doesn’t consider inappropriately perverted with a man who has learned to deliver the goods in a way that she enjoys, time after time. Imposing task? Not necessarily. Here’s a three step plan to help you navigate this special road into the erotic heart of any woman…
1) Search For Her Erotic Weaknesses
The first step is to figure out what sort of cheap sex tricks will send any particular girl into orbit. How?… Experiment! Maybe she likes to be dirty-talked or verbally coaxed? Perhaps she wants you to control her in some way? Or maybe she wants to control YOU? Try all sorts of things with her… spanking, tickling, toys, take some nasty pictures, do it out in the bushes, try some stuff in the shower, swap positions, etc. Use your porno powers here that you’ve spent years (likely all by yourself) “cultivating”. Some of this mayhem may turn her off, but there’s usually SOMETHING that will get a woman red-lining off the meter — and it’s your job to discover what that is and then learn how to play it like a fiddle!
If she refuses to go very much beyond plain vanilla missionary-style, then you may have run across a chick with low sex drive or other pressing issues on her mind that she feels must be more important. Rather than be angry about it, count your blessings. It’s fortunate to uncover such crucial knowledge of incompatibility about a partner as soon as possible because it will head off a ton of future misery. Turning someone this sexually uninterested towards your more open-minded, erotically-experimental direction can be an impossible task. I’ve always felt that the best sex occurs between two child-like adults, and by that I mean people who don’t take themselves too seriously. At least not to the point where they feel sex has become “kid stuff” and somehow beneath their dignity. People who’ve taken on too much responsibility in life are likely to end up this way by middle-age. Just a warning.
Anyway, regular work between the sheets will eventually uncover where all her high water marks are located, and her limits as well. Keep notes on what you’re doing to make a girl erotic and of her reactions to your experimental prodding — silly as this may sound. After you fill a few pages of such notes, go back and search for clues. Look for those things that she seems to enjoy the most and figure out a few clever ways to focus in on them.
Now you’re ready to lock her Heart up tight, and lock Yourself into the drivers’ seat!
2) Become Her “Drug” Based on that Weakness
Once you think you have some idea of what a woman’s erotic weaknesses could be (in the sense that she has an intense desire or a “weakness” for certain sorts of positions, fetishes, fantasies, etc.) then you’re ready to zoom in on them, expand upon whatever they may be and make them more elaborate. The idea is to become really good at delivering the best CUSTOM sexual experience that she’s ever had… and do so time after time.
If she wonders what the deal is with your sudden enthusiasm, just tell her that she makes you feel uninhibited like no woman ever has before. This freaks many girls out because most women think that all guys are natural sex-fiends to some degree and don’t realize that it often takes someone SPECIAL to actually bring this quality out in them…
And for you, that person is HER!
Such an attempt to reach out and connect your soul with hers through raw physical pleasure makes a powerful impact that cannot be easily dismissed. The rush of adrenaline that accompanies such feelings will serve to weld these unique moments deep into her unconscious mind. And they will all be connected to YOU… you will always be “that guy” who did “that thing” the night you were both together at “that place”. Now you’re beginning to see Romantic Enchantment in action!
3) Get Her Addicted to You
Look, most people pretty much wing it when it comes to sex – they know a few basic moves and make the rest up as they go along. The fact that you have 1) studied your “prey” and determined what really turns her on, and 2) are making an effort to satisfy her in specific ways that tie into these revelations, will surely paint you as a totally different breed of cat.
And that’s good!
Before long you’ll be seen as a champion among all the men she’s known — and really, you’ll hardly have done anything all that amazing. You’ll just be doing things with a little more purpose, direction and creativity than the average Joe. That’s male seductive power in action.
While the task of enchanting a woman is mainly one of carefully feeding her thrills and absorbing her fears based on what you’ve learned from your study of her sexual proclivities, one warning however… never bust this illusion by announcing what you’re up to. Don’t say, “I’m going to make you addicted to me!…” For that matter, NEVER reveal that you’re actually seducing a woman either. Once people begin to think they’re being manipulated they will throw up massive resistance.
Like a stage magician, a trick is only cool as long as you never reveal how it works. If you show the audience how the string runs up your sleeve they’ll think ‘oh, that trick was easy’, and then suddenly the whole thing sucks.
As for technique, that’s simple… women just love for men to TALK IT UP in bed!
What exactly to say, what’s your angle? Work up the not-so-obvious: tell her all the enticing stuff she longs to hear, but never ever expects to. Tell an older woman that she’s TIGHT like a young chick. Rave about a thick girl’s voluptuous body. Tell a 25 year old she has a sultriness that belies her real age — one that makes her seem more like an experienced middle-aged seductress. Mention to a skinny girl that her long arms make her look like a statue in an art museum, or that you absolutely LOVE the way that her shoulder blades form little angel wings. Skinny girls often think they’re not all that sexy because they don’t have enough curves. Not as far as YOU’RE concerned, though… you love it!
Notice the pattern here?…
No one wants to be themselves! Especially women: they all want to be younger or older or shaped differently or whatever… anything but plain old them! This is why you need to think up a new TWIST every time that you make love to a girl — so it appears as if you are unraveling her bit-by-bit like a delicate flower, each layer more wonderful than the last! And you are the very FIRST guy to ever see her in this way… as this fantasy creature that she never dared dream of being. Only YOU can see through the ordinary and view the extraordinary in her!
Few women can resist this sort of lavish attention spilling forth from their lover… it’s intoxicating! This is how you make your girl more erotic and more fun in bed: by deliberate action rather than relying on dumb luck to steer you into the theoretical “right person” who just happens to have a sexual compatibility that matches your own.
You need to mold and shape the person that you’re already with into that right person through your deliberate actions.
This is also the way to establish a position of POWER for yourself in all your relationships — a way to have women “eating out of your hand” before very long. This is not achieved with the vinegar of nagging and begging, but with the Honey of your presenting to her a rare and unique sensuality that she’s unlikely to ever find in the arms of any other man…
It’s all done by becoming her sweetest addiction!
Self-Confidence Tips to Help You Be More Attractive to Women
by Mike Pilinski on Jul.14, 2010, under General Thoughts
Nothing creates a more attention-grabbing romantic signal that most women will immediately take notice of than the magnificent display of Confidence in men. Whether it’s actually while in the act of “hitting” on her itself, or merely doing something powerfully in her presence, confidence always makes a stunning impact on women!
A dynamic display of self-confidence can have a near magical ability to influence others and get them to RESPECT you as well — and it’s especially important for women to see men as being confident because it plays into their subconscious grading system via which they sort out the (attractive) high status males from their (less desirable) low status counterparts.
Here’s an important fact that you may not be aware of: men gain most of their natural confidence not so much by interacting with women, but by competing against one another. So your seeming LACK of it will be read by a lot of these women as a measure of your submission to these other men… professionally, financially, physically, etc. You have apparently been made into one of their bitches and now it shows through in your shyness and lack of self-confidence!
This may not be entirely fair, but you need to understand little IS fair in the game of romance and seduction — and so it’s something that you need to factor in when it comes to getting yourself seen as being out there “on the playing field”… an important appearance that you should always try to maintain.
So in light of all this, here are 7 important confidence tips that can really help you pump-up a weak and paltry male display:
1) Realize that most people are probably just as big a bundle of doubts and insecurities as you are, probably even more so. And especially women… and DOUBLE especially if she’s a 9 or 10! This is the ‘hidden insecurity’ phenomenon that the pick up artist’s technique known as “neg hitting” attempts to exploit, (although I myself am not a practitioner of this particular fine art, charming little sweetheart that I am)…
Regardless, understand that we are ALL fighting with these same challenges and demons… merely to different degrees. So keep soldiering on — you are not alone in your struggles!
2) People are NOT mind readers… which means that they cannot peer into your soul and know your deepest fears at a mere glance. So if you appear to be confident around them, then who are they NOT to believe you? “Hey, this guy seems pretty confident in himself for some reason, so I guess I’ll go along with it…” This gives us the advantage of being able to “fake it until we make it” and pad our male display with some early bluffing until our personal change becomes more genuine and deeply integrated into our core personality.
Look, you’re probably already practicing exactly the opposite process right now when you consistently keep talking the wrong sort of internal self-talk to yourself. You are essentially hypnotizing yourself into acting in ways that support a poor and unattractive self-image. So if you want a better self-image, then learn to fill your head with better thoughts about yourself and your value as a person than you do now. Inner game is essentially 99% of the “secret” to coming off like the confident alpha male around women!
3) Try to always remain aware of your body language and the kinds of “plus or minus” subliminal signals about yourself that you could be broadcasting to women — they have an extremely sensitive radar for this sort of thing, and especially when it comes to men. I’m talking about things like shoulders back, head up, solid eye contact, being at ease about casually being the first to touch someone non-offensively (an assumed HSM “privilege”).
Hey, don’t be afraid to employ a few “cheap trick” confidence tips like this next one to get some early points on the board for yourself: For instance, if you’re still too shy to meet someone’s eye directly, then stare at their nose. Seriously, it’s an old salesman’s trick… people cannot tell the different between someone staring at the bridge of their nose and someone who’s looking them straight in the eye. Try it today and see for yourself. (And also take note the more positive reaction that you are pulling from people as well… The power of confidence!)
4) If you see yourself as being confident in your own mind, then you will give off a confident “vibe” about yourself without even being aware of it. This has to do with the inability of the human mind to distinguish between common everyday reality and a richly-imagined fantasy. Your imagination is the gateway to achieving feelings of deep self-worth, so learn how to use it to “fool” your subconscious mind into seeing yourself in a stronger frame. What you are looking to do is create an emotion more overwhelming than your fear. This will allow you to begin seeing the people around you differently, while having them view YOU differently as well.
It’s from this shift in subliminal vibes that new social opportunities will soon begin to appear all around you — and your shiny new cloak of unstoppable confidence will be the power that drives it forward!
5) Never worry about having to “back up” your confidence — almost no one ever has to do this. People see you acting confidently and that’s just the way it is, they simply accept it. Rarely will anyone challenge you to “prove” it (prove what?). It’s only those guys who really insist on pressing what a tough guy they are that eventually end up in fights. This isn’t confidence, it’s bravado. Like having a fat ‘tell’ in poker.
Look, there’s no shame in trying to change whatever poor thinking it is that’s currently holding you back from participating fully in the game of love and romance, so don’t worry about any of this high-minded BS. These are just mental red herrings designed to keep you distracted from making serious personal change in your life. No one can know what you are doing in the privacy of your own mind, and it’s none of their business anyway – so feel free to imagine your way straight into a better life!
6) Get good at something that makes you look cool and/or powerful and competent and show it off somehow (guitar hero anyone?… just kidding
. Seriously. Why not strive to become skilled at some type of activity, trade, sport or even a cool hobby like rock climbing to help yourself attract women? Start with some modest demonstration of your prowess and just keep playing it up. Soon you’ll begin to gather a following of closer friends and maybe even a few fans as well. (Just don’t “pied-piper” them all into the jungle one day and have them sample your specially formulated kool-aid…!)
7) Surrender the Self-Hatred and let your spirit fly! Give up once and for all on the misguided belief that your station in life is somehow genetically or culturally imposed upon you, and that you are permanently stuck right where you are. That’s Middle Age-going-nowhere sort of thinking. What it really is, is self-hatred keeping you locked in its “hopeless and helpless victim” trap. It performs this little feat by making any other alternative life-path seem impossible for you to achieve, which is utter nonsense of course.
Take a chance to prove this to yourself today by challenging your fear in some significant way. Get mad at your fear, take it on! Don’t let these powerful ideas that I’m giving you just go in one ear and out the other… use them!
I think that confidence, to finally describe it, is nothing more than an overriding assumption that things will always go your way in the end… no matter what. But this won’t happen for you until you get out there and demonstrate to yourself that new and vastly different possibilities really can exist… for YOU. Once you achieve this absolutely critical cognitive breakthrough (called, duh… “belief and motivation”…) you’ll finally be able to take those first few baby steps towards massive personal change…
And at that point, believe it or not, the hardest part of the entire journey will already be behind you.
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And speaking of having more confidence…
I just put my brand new Kick Ass Confidence 7 Part Audio Training Series up online as a totally FREE giveaway program. That’s right, you can now listen to the entire 90 minute program for free. Just sign-up on the following page:
And you’ll get the links for each of the 7 lessons e-mailed to you at 3 day intervals. This gives you time to listen to each one and perform the little homework assignments before the next part arrives. It’s a more disciplined way to learn, prevents overwhelm and REALLY WORKS! Give it a try, and I thank you for your support. And be sure to spread the word to any of your interested friends who could use a little extra shot of self-confidence.
~MP
Hit All Her Hottest Foreplay Buttons Tonight
by Mike Pilinski on Apr.11, 2010, under Guest Bloggers
Guest Article by Gabrielle Moore
Author of “The Female Orgasm Revealed“

As a man of romantic value, there are dozens of magnificent and thrilling things that you can do to your lover which can make her blood absolutely BOIL with horniness. Want to learn a few right now?
You might imagine that such an incredible secret of the feminine mystique must involve some sort of difficult new twisty-disty sexual position or kink, but really, it’s only about knowing where a woman’s hidden pleasure buttons can be found — and then knowing what sorts of physical and mental provocations can make them come alive with erotic fire!
Become expert at “playing” these magic pleasure spots like a musical instrument and you can consistently make a woman’s orgasm ring like a bell every time:
General Rules For Kissing and Forplay
1. While making out with your girl, take a break now and then and mix it up a little so you don’t trance out in one posture. Rule #1: Don’t forget to apply a lovely, lingering attention to your lover’s neck! Focus especially on that tender patch of skin just in front of her ears. While kissing and licking this electric area, whisper something deliciously sweet to her… or else really nasty! You can make the fantasy soft and sensual, or as dirty as you’d like. You’re call. Just have a plan!
2. LICK her lips instead of just kissing them. While doing this, gently whisper that you are just dying to lick her “nether” lips as well… Dying. That’s the word we want to hear.
3. Now that she’s all sweaty, glide your hand down between her legs and caress her mound right through her panties (or maybe they’re gone by now!…). I would try to use the word ‘soaking’ somewhere in your whispering caress, keeping your voice always low and sexy, of course.
4. It’s very sexy for a man to undress himself in front of me, and even to make a bit of a show of it. Make sure that she sees EXACTLY how turned on you are for her! Full blown self-play isn’t necessary if you’re not comfortable with it, but touching yourself a couple times to show her how anxious you are is what you’re looking to demonstrate! BTW: She doesn’t get any yet. You insist that the massage continue, ma’am. (I love when they say that!
5. Once she’s stretched out naked, run a silk tie or silk scarf across her body. Have her turn over and this time, as the silk tie or scarf runs the length of her spine, follow closely behind with your hot tongue!
6. Instead of a lap dance, why not ask your lover for a ‘bed dance’ instead? This is where she dances completely naked all over you as you lie on your back and enjoy the show. Have her sashay all over your face, chest, and groin until the two of you can’t stand it. Get some music going for this one.
7. While giving a woman oral, place a pillow under her ass to elevate her mound. This will give you more access without suffering a stiff neck the next day, and for her it will intensify the pleasure.
Super-Erotic Massage Techniques
A sexual massage is something that I personally LOVE to receive from my partner. It never fails to completely relax my entire body. Done properly, it acts to provoke my sexual tension until I’m fixed to either have sex right now or f****in’ explode! Trust me guys, this stuff works wonders.
In addition to ensuring that you have the right environment (i.e., a quiet room, a well-laid out bed or a comfy spot on the floor, etc.) and the necessary equipment (e.g. scented candles, massage oils, etc.), consider also making use of a few fabrics made of silk, satin and velvet as well. All these different textures can help bring about different responses from her nervous system. If you don’t have these things immediately on hand, don’t let it stop you from giving your women this ultimate gift anyway. After all, the most important element — YOU — is always available!
Begin by undressing her in the role of her servant or slave boy. Have fun with the fantasy, hey we don’t do this stuff everyday so make it special. This is how you win her heart forever. Once she’s nude, have her lie face down on the area you’ve prepared for the massage. And, while she has her back turned to you, get naked as well (unless, as the slave boy masseuse you were already required to be nude. Adjust your play accordingly…)
The idea is to use your full body mass as a massaging tool. Lie on top of her facing the back of her head, supporting your weight on your arms so as not to crush her. Launch the sexual massage by applying pressure across her whole body by just lying still for a few moments. She can feel your penis pressing between her thighs.
I once had a guy slip on a cock-ring (when I wasn’t looking
which gave him an absolutely rock solid hard-on for the entire time that he served me. He kept poking me with the tip and surfing it down my spine and ass cheeks I could feel stringers of his gooey precome running all across my back, crisscrossing like webs after a while. I cannot describe the head trip of having a man literally drooling all over you with desire as he serves as your (skilled or otherwise, at this point who even cares!) “master masseuse”. Remember to breathe hot air sensually across her neck and down her back — this will thrill her skin in a most incredible way.
Try your hardest ( ! ) not to get carried away and go straight for the sex for at least 30-60 minutes. Make her endure this sweet torment and soon enough you will BOTH be rewarded with electrical-sexual sensitivity that has to be experienced to be believed!
Use your fingertips expertly. Pull yourself up and straddle her (your cock resting in the valley formed by the back of her thighs), put some warm oil on your hands and start to massage along her spine using just your fingertips. Alternate hard strokes with lighter touches to mix it up and keep her guessing as to what’s coming next.
Try some Palm Circling. Progress from using your fingers to ‘palm circling’ — which is basically a massage using the entire width of your hand. This is a firmer technique that helps the body to really relax. As a general rule, never massage directly on the bones. Place the palms of both your hands on her back and move them in circles, firmly outward and away from her spine.
Gliding into Ecstasy. Slide yourself all the way down her body until your buttocks end up down near her feet. Now slide back up to the top of her shoulders and begin doing the palm circling massage again… but this time, glide down to her ass and continue massaging there too. After a few of these body-long strokes, reach for the top of her shoulders again but this time, keep your head low so that your face is right in front of her ass (like kneeling and bowing to someone.) You can do the palm circling again while breathing hot and heavy against her ass. A variation would be to LICK her ass instead of breathing your hot breath on it, while simultaneously palm-circling her back. By now she should be pleasure tripping and putty in your expert hands!
A Powerful Thumb Job. Use your thumbs to massage her lower back. Make short, rapid, alternate strokes with each thumb — moving up and across her ass toward her waist. Continue working along the right-hand side of her body all the way up to the shoulders. Repeat this on the left side of her body, and finish off by going back and concentrating again on her lower back and all across her ass. You may want to dip a finger or two into her now as she’s certainly ready for it.
The Final Frontier. Continue to thumb massage her while your hands move slowly down to her butt. Part her crack and thumb massage her anus. She may try to squirm away or gasp, but stay with it. Alternate between your handwork massage and breathing your hot breathe directly onto her anus. Man that’s a crazy wicked sensation! Repeat all these various massage patterns again and again for as long as you can both stand it. Just remember to really oil yourself up good, as the gliding effect of massive skin contact will have her insane with lust for her “slave boy / masseuse” soon enough!
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Whew, there you have it. Trust me, this is exactly the sort of experience that most women dream about having with their men, and sadly, so few of us actually have. This is where you can separate yourself from the pack of ordinary selfish men out there and really make a reputation for yourself as a rockin’ sexy lover. Just let your imagination run wild… and draw her into your fantasy world with power and authority.
When it comes to pleasuring women, I have lots more tricks than these up my sleeve guys. Discover my universe of “extra- sensual” manipulation techniques that are designed to give your woman the most chillin’ & thrillin’ orgasms she can possibly stand. You can download my FREE report: “The 5 Myths About The Female Orgasm” on my website right now.
Thank you baby!
Loving Licks,
Gabrielle
Re-bonding Can Save Your Relationship Today
by Mike Pilinski on Apr.02, 2010, under Guest Bloggers

By Guest Writer T. W. Jackson,
Author of: ‘The Magic of Making Up‘
The following is a guest posting from my buddy, good ol’ T dubbya Jackson (sounds some redneck who just rolled off the set of The Dukes of Hazzard
. Not so my friend, Jackson is an acclaimed writer whose book is not about picking up women or dating, but rather a collection of strategies and techniques that are designed to SAVE a relationship or marriage — or even to get back together again with your ex-girlfriend. Now me personally, I’m not into this sort of thing… I am proud to say that no door has ever struck this little rock-and-roll ass as it fled the scene of the crime. But I do get a fair amount of questions about how to win back a lost girlfriend, and so I thought that you might enjoy a clever tip from the Relationship Master T. Dubbya himself. Enjoy.
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You smell the smoke, hear the crackle of fire and begin to swoon from the searing heat. But the coming forest fire that you sense in the air isn’t one that’s threatening your material possessions (well, maybe it isn’t…), but something that should be far more precious to you: your once loving relationship with your gal… which is about to go up in flames!
Now look, no matter what the actual issues were set YOUR personal life ablaze, few of us know where to even begin aiming the firehose to put it out. In fact, unlike a real fire, directly attacking the core of the heat is the WRONG approach to take when trying to extinguish relationship problems.
For example, imagine that because of this lousy economic recession your relationship has encountered some nasty financial stresses. The man may’ve been laid off his job and is feeling scared and lost, uncertain about the future. These deep fears may begin to express themselves in small arguments with his wife or lover over how the money is being spent, whether or not a planned vacation that she was looking forward to should be cancelled or not, etc.
As a result, the guy may slowly begin to withdraw from his partner emotionally — perhaps even engage in a growing list escapist behaviors… getting himself wrapped up in endless TV watching, video games, alcohol, cyber porn or something similar.
And so NOW what do we do?…
Well, we’ve got TWO fires smoldering away from either end of the candle now because the woman is starting to feel lonely and isolated because her man has withdrawn from her, and this keeps her locked in a spiral of increasing anger. Which fire do we try to put out first? His or hers?
What we need to do is make a truce. This couple needs to stop focusing on controlling the actual problems (money, emotional isolation) and focus instead on nurturing back to health what still might be left of the former passion that they once shared… even if it seems like there’s nothing much left.
For instance, Tom and Cindy might both love cooking together, so this could be a great common interest to seize upon. They need to actively make a pact to let their problems go and to NOT worry about them for awhile, but instead try and forge a new start together. They can begin doing this with something as simple as cooking dinner together and allowing themselves to reconnect in the kitchen and at the dinner table… EVERY night. Maybe they play a little cards or go for a walk afterwards and share some laughs — have a little fun. Reconnecting!
Now Cindy isn’t feeling so isolated anymore because Tom’s isn’t always watching TV or surfing the web and ignoring her. Which leads to Tom starting to feel a little bit better about himself. As he finds new positive energy and his confidence builds, Tom gets more assertive about finding work. Soon Tom lands a new job, which relieves much of the financial stress that the relationship had been experiencing. And so all of a sudden the couple has turned the corner on averting a breakup or divorce.
The moral of the story is that with a little fanning of the flames of simple PASSION – by re-discovering old forgotten interests for instance — couples can overcome the worst sorts of problems that drive them apart — including affairs, drug or alcohol use… even a wrenching death in the family. Look back for the TINIEST things that you both used to enjoy doing together, and then ACTIVELY put your problems aside for a while and begin to rebuild that passion again by exploiting those small points of romantic leverage. When there is little passion left in a relationship, even the smallest problems can explode into big blazing fires. So thats where you need to begin correcting things… with the small things first. It’s all about moving beyond the dullness of familiarity and recapturing past feelings.
Now if you’re reading this and feel that a blaze of growing animosity has already ‘gutted’ your relationship, you need to understand that you can create a second chance for yourself. I’ve made some amazing breakthroughs in the field of human love, bonding and re-bonding, and I’ve made a video where I share some of those counter-intuitive re-bonding techniques. Have a look at it here:
This video has been viewed over 893,000 times on YouTube (rated 4 1/2 stars!) and it’s rare for a day to go by where I don’t receive a really heart-warming note from someone who has put their relationship back together by using the advice in my book. Even after going through hell and fearing that they’d never find their way back into their ex-lover’s arms again! You can do it too… don’t give up hope.
Hello everyone, sorry I haven’t posted in a while… but I’ve been busy, busy cooking up a brand new online FREE Audio Training series that I’m sure you guys will find most useful. Stay tuned for word on that in the coming weeks…
As you fine readers of this blog may or may not know, my book Without Embarrassment has been around for quite some time now. It was actually first published back in the internet stone age around October of 2002, where it was one of the first kids on the block in the sense of being one of the very first books to adopt the scary brave new world of online technology known as: the “e-book”. Yes, e-books were just getting a toe-hold on the collective consciousness back then. Everything about the Net was new and raw, and there was still this popular idyllic notion floating around that it was a scandalous thing to charge people money for your information. To sell information was to cheapen it!


Rather than using clever verbal “patterns” designed to hypnotize chicks into robotic submission, I’ve found that the most effective way to deliver an opening comment is to use any sort of playfully casual approach that makes it sound as if a spontaneous thought just popped into my head. A simple ‘hi’ can do the trick if handled properly.


