Without Embarrassment:

The Social Coward's Totally Fearless Seduction System

By Michael Pilinski - Available for the Kindle,
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Without Embarrassment: The Social Coward's Totally Fearless Seduction System by acclaimed PUA and seduction author Mike Pilinski has been called one of the most important books ever published in the men's dating market. It addresses the internalized shame and other toxic psychological issues that trap men in shyness and socially awkward behaviors which keep them isolated and alone.

This book delivers a potent strategy to set you on the path to social mastery - taking you on an internal journey of self-investigation that lays open a complete understanding of the roots of your frustration when trying to connect with women. It delivers real-life tactics, dialogs, and strategies to help get you past all these problems.

Think about being able to walk right up to the prettiest woman in a nightclub, classroom or even in the street and engage her in a cool, flirtatious conversation... one that will have her laughing and joking around with you in seconds, handing over her phone number in minutes, and leaving you feeling like a million bucks for the rest of your life!

Now imagine being able to pull this off without any paralyzing fear of rejection - without any shame or uncertainty, and most of all...

...Without any embarrassment!

That's what this book is all about.

Fear of Rejection... Rejected!

Fear of being rejected by a woman is a terrible social handicap that haunts a surprisingly large number of men. Deeply hidden feelings of inadequacy that surface at the worst possible moment can make it impossible to think, talk, act and sometimes even MOVE when an opportunity to socialize with an attractive woman presents itself.

This kind of failure is not without its' consequence, it grinds on you relentlessly until it begins to drag down many other aspects of your life. You begin to get left out of social events... people "forget" to invite you to parties because you're "that guy" who never brings a date. Or maybe it's because your social awkwardness and inappropriate behavior makes them feel uncomfortable when you're around.

This book addresses the misguided unconscious beliefs that have been blocking your progress in life. It lays out a step-by-step process to develop a casual, seductive personality for yourself that an amazing number of women will find attractive and interesting. You'll discover clever psychological tactics that will improve your odds of successfully making connections with women at every step along the path from courtship to seduction... from the moment that a girl first catches your eye, to the thrill of winning her heart, and ultimately bedding her.

Toxic Shame: The Male Confidence Assassin

You'll learn some incredible facts about the poisonous effect that something called toxic shame could be having on your personality. Internalized shame is a subconscious issue that manifests itself in ways that can make it difficult to be social and connect women. Toxic shame created a disastrous internal belief system in myself that ruined the best years of my life... until I accidentally discovered that it even existed when I was in my early thirties, and then only by sheer accident.

I set out to take deliberate steps to eliminate this beast from my consciousness, and I'll show you exactly how to duplicate my success. I'll explain what toxic shame is, how it worms its' way maliciously into every aspect of your life, and lay out the specific steps that I used clear this garbage out of my head forever.

As part of this process, I developed numerous clever methods to attract the attention of women, but in a very subtle manner that allowed me to protect my sensitive ego just enough to give me the courage to act. My techniques make it extremely safe even for the super-shy guy to operate with a quiet, powerful confidence that gets you noticed and eventually hooked-up.

You'll learn how to make fantastic first impressions... converse with a purpose to get the date or phone number that you're seeking... know exactly when to say the right thing at the right moment, etc. etc. You'll even see how to get a girl daydreaming about you when you're not around her!

So let's get busy breaking the destructive cycle of fear, anxiety and other self-defeating behaviors that are holding back your romantic life, and begin designing your own grand adventure.

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Mike PilinskiSeduction and Dating Author:

Mike Pilinski

Hello, I'm Mike Pilinski and I'd like to thank you for your interest in my books. You'll see that my work is focused on addressing the Number #1 issue that can totally ruin a guy's social life: a paralyzing fear of being rejected while trying to meet women. In my books I share with you all the revelations, ideas and solutions that I hammered out through lots of hard work to eliminate these fear-based problems... problems that guys like us have had to deal with in desperate, shameful silence for too long. Take a look, I'll show you the escape route to mental freedom and social victory.


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She’s Yours For The Taking

shes yours for the takingA Man’s Guide to the Seduction and Sexual Enchantment of Women

Social life going nowhere?  No problem, I’ll show you how to turn things around for yourself real fast with my new book designed to help you locate, meet, date and ultimately seduce the girl of your dreams… whoever she may be.  You’ll learn how to use clever dialogs and project a cool high status alpha-male attitude to create a great vibe with any girl that you choose to set your sights on.

And while dating itself may not always be the nerve-wracking experience that actually meeting a woman can be, it’s the ONE place where your dreams can get shipwrecked by just a few innocent mistakes. When it comes to women, first impressions and first dates leave little room for error – judgements are made quickly and often ruthlessly. You need to be at the top of your game nowadays or the competition will sweep you away.

Instead of enduring all this pain and frustration, let She’s Yours For The Taking show you how to make psychologically effective moves on women, and best of all, do it routinely in everyday “real life” situations.  Real life frequently serves up genuine chances to make out because the usual snotty attitudes that chicks display in environments like nightclubs are nowhere to be found. This sets the stage for a guy to be smooth and fascinating when the girl least expects it, which doubles the romantic impact:

  • Learn how to apply a “psychology of emotion” to your personality that women will find irresistible…
  • How to simulate having adequate social skills even if you’re scared shitless!  Seriously, I’ve perfected a quick & simple NLP trick that you can use to trick your own mind into delivering a confident posture – “on demand” – whenever you need it, in any situation…
  • Learn how to use effective opening comments that intrigue women rather than get them looking for someone else to talk to…
  • Rejection fears are addressed… making a smooth recovery from a ‘no’, getting past the dreaded first phone call – and even knowing the perfect way to end a first date…
  • Learn my very casual cold-meeting move called pull tabbing.  It works with pre-scripted routines which can be modified to suit your style and then memorized.  Now you can do something with those unexpected “gotcha” chances to meet women that make you want to kick yourself in the ass for missing them!


Let’s face it… it can be tough to know exactly how to act around any particular woman in order to get her to dig you.  In our desperation we sometimes try to be a nice guy but not too nice, a steadfast guy who tries to demonstrate that he takes no crap from women… then blows everything up by provoking an argument… etc. etc.

She’s Yours For The Taking lays out dozens of creative strategies to help get you through this crazy social minefield.  I’m sure that before long it will become your #1 reference for solving all the problems that you’re ever likely to have gaming women… from meeting and dating them, to ultimately bedding the right one… just the way that she loves it!

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Mike, I am truly impressed with the insights you possess in regards to the whole male-female relationship thing.  The past few weeks have been an incredible confidence boost for me.  At the bars, I’m concentrating on displaying a high status male aura and dear lord… it absolutely works! ~ Bob Wilneck

Just last night I was at the bar with a few friends and, after walking over to put a few quarters on the pool table, I turned around to find a nice looking blonde with her hand outstretched offering me her name, and asking me for mine!  I did a pull tab like you described in your book, and I’ll tell you I could see in her eyes that she was into me, it was like I was the only person in her world at that moment.   It has been a long time since something like that has happened to me!  It gave me a big feeling of crazy confidence that made me feel like I could take on the whole bar! Your high status methods totally rock out buddy! ~ Mike Tellus


Masterful Social Skills For Men

Meet Women, Find Love, Overcome Fear of Rejection and Learn How to Build the Dynamic Dating Life That You Deserve

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mssm udemyMasterful Social Skills For Men is a confidence-boosting experience for guys who would like to have a structured pick up routine all loaded up in their heads ready to put into play at a moment’s notice whenever they encounter an attractive woman… anywhere and everywhere that you happen to run across them: at work, in the gym, the mall, the classroom, at social gatherings, etc.

The program includes actual dialogs that you can use to force critical turns in any ordinary conversation – giving you the freedom to escalate things romantically whenever you choose to do so. These laser-targeted “things to say” can be fully customized to suit your own personal style and personality, based on a simple formula that you can use to structure unique conversational dialogs for yourself.

These structured workarounds for shyness and fear of rejection are woven throughout what I call the “Pull Tabbing” process – which is a practiced routine for casually (and discreetly) sampling the personalities of all the various women who may interest you. I’m talking about a customized routine (but NOT a robotic one) that you can switch into instantly whenever you may need it in order to give yourself something cool, clever and purposeful to say to any women who catches your eye.

  • You’ll learn how to engage in targeted conversations that can flip any ordinary encounter from boring chit-chat into one suddenly having a clear and exciting man-woman edge to it…
  • Course focuses on dealing with that miserable fear of rejection that stops guys from expressing themselves in a dynamic and attractive way around interesting women…
  • Actual (customizable) dialogs will act as confidence generators to prevent you from having to endure the dreaded “blank mind disease”… you know, when you see a girl who looks approachable but you can’t think of anything clever to say to her, so you say nothing?
  • Rejected?… No problem: the ‘Graceful Extraction Statement’ shields you from having to endure any embarrassment whatsoever.


naked girlI’ve corresponded with hundreds of men over the past 11 years since I released my first book Without Embarrassment on this subject of social shyness and rejection fear, and I’ve come to understand the sorts of common and repeated problems that they have endured through the stories they’ve shared with me. Many of these issues stem from a specific sort of shame which can get lodged in your unconscious mind at some unsuspecting point in your life, where it then modifies your situational behaviors in ways that it mistakenly believes will protect it.

This easy-to-digest video training program (2 hours total spread over 17 concise lectures) will show you how to identify the internal issues that have been driving your fear and social failure… creating all the romantic excitement that you can possibly handle in the process.

The Course also includes complete audio soundtracks for private listening, and 4 pdf study guides.

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